Something I said to someone:

When I heard your opinion on Elon Musk, I became worried about your well-being as well as anyone else who holds your opinion. My fear-based communication led to separation not connection. I violated many of the suggestions given in this passage from “Messages from the Masters” by Brian Weiss. It would be nice if groups had a set of communication guidelines and procedures to immediately handle violent communication. Please forgive me. I’m sorry. I meant to help you, not harm you.